Infidelity

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Infidelity Counseling Services in the Portland Area

Supportive Therapy for Infidelity

If you or someone you care about has experienced infidelity, remember, you’re definitely not alone. According to the American Psychological Association, infidelity is a leading factor in divorces across the United States, with 42 percent of divorced individuals admitting to having experienced an extramarital affair.

Research indicates that cheating can happen to anyone, regardless of gender. As noted by Psychology Today, most affairs tend to unfold over a period of 6 to 24 months. Interestingly, according to Marriage Today, over half of couples find a way to stay connected even after infidelity comes to light.

Whether we refer to it as infidelity, cheating, or betrayal, the truth is that these situations are more frequent than we might like to acknowledge. Even well-known figures are not exempt from straying from their partners.

Building a deep connection with your soulmate can take years, but infidelity can quickly damage the trust and loyalty between partners, leaving one person feeling heartbroken, perplexed, and isolated.

Infidelity can have a profound impact, not only on the relationship but also on the health, well-being, and self-esteem of the betrayed partner.

What is Infidelity?

Infidelity involves betraying or being unfaithful to a spouse or partner, and the reasons behind it can vary widely from person to person.

 

Types of Infidelity

Here are some common types of infidelity:

  • Online infidelity (engaging in intimate conversations through texting or chatting)
  • Sexual infidelity (having physical relations with someone not emotionally connected to you)
  • Emotional infidelity (forming an emotional bond that may eventually lead to a sexual relationship)

What causes people to commit infidelity?

It’s important to remember that there isn’t a universal reason for cheating. Everyone has their unique motivations for straying from their partner. Generally, both men and women may seek infidelity based on their personal needs and life situations.

With that in mind, here are some common reasons someone might stray from their relationship:

  • Feeling unsure about themselves
  • Not being completely happy in their current partnership
  • Wanting to bring an end to the current relationship
  • Missing that deep emotional connection
  • Struggling with feelings of sadness
  • Trying to avoid personal or relationship challenges
  • Looking for a fresh or exciting sexual experience
 

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The effects of infidelity

Discovering infidelity in a relationship can be incredibly tough, stirring up a mix of emotions like shock, sadness, and anger.

Coming to grips with a loved one’s unfaithfulness can feel overwhelming and heartbreaking. Whether you’re a man or a woman, navigating the aftermath of a spouse’s infidelity can be a lot to handle. It may affect your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. On the flip side, the partner who cheated might also experience feelings of guilt after the affair.

Sometimes, infidelity can lead to the end of a marriage or a long-term relationship. But remember, the painful effects of infidelity can be healed with the support of a caring therapist through infidelity counseling.

If you and your partner are on a journey to mend and strengthen your relationship after facing challenges like infidelity, look no further! Azizeh E. Rezaiyan at Silicon Valley Marriage Counseling is here to guide you through couples, marriage, and infidelity counseling with a compassionate touch.

As a friendly and licensed therapist, Azizeh E. Rezaiyan is dedicated to helping you and your partner uncover the underlying issues and discover practical solutions through open, honest communication and heartfelt dialogue.

With over twenty years of experience in supporting couples, Azizeh E. Rezaiyan truly values your privacy and confidentiality, ensuring you receive personalized care that’s just right for you.

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